Suffering, suffering & more suffering

Is there an end to it? We all have been aware of the fact that animals are being put down in some animal shelters. Even I had no idea about the gravity of the situation till I joined certain groups that help out these dogs & cats.

The idea itself seems quite unfair, but animals that aren’t being adopted by anyone are either put down or they are being gassed. Believe it or not, every day I see photos of so many dogs that are actually on death row. I don’t know how else to describe it. They only have a day or 2 & if someone doesn’t adopt them in that limited time, they are being put down. I really don’t understand the concept of these animal shelters.

They don’t have enough space to accommodate these animals. It’s more or less the luck of an animal, if he gets out of there. And the stories are saddening. People adopt animals & just discard them, as if they are things, not living beings. Some animals have been rescued too, cause their owners are psychos. However, not all animal shelters kill animals. I have even signed a couple of petitions against such killings, but honestly, I had no idea how ugly the entire thing is. It's not that people don't care about animals, they do. They are dedicated to this cause & they help as many animals as they could. In spite of this, the situation is not great.

What’s the point of having such shelters? I really don’t understand it. How could one do this to animals? I’m from a country where we don’t have proper animal shelters at all. I shouldn’t even be raising such points, cause here strays are regarded as dirty & in so-called posh areas, they shoot stray dogs.

Yesterday I also watched this clip in which some teenagers were making a movie. They were about to throw a little puppy from the bridge & they did that with so much ease, if as they kill on a daily basis.

Animals too are suffering every where just like humans, but there is one bog difference – the reason these poor creatures suffer is human. This is disgusting. I hope we can have animal shelters where we don’t put down animals. The point of a shelter is to protect an animal whether he is adopted or not.

A very sorry state

Yesterday I read that Sana – the woman who killed her 6 months old daughter along with her husband has been declared mentally fit by the psychiatrist & they have handed over the 4 year old daughter to her in jail. Earlier on the kid was in some NGO. This proves that no one actually cares. How can you possibly hand over another child to some murderer? Right now they are saying that the police alleged that they might have killed this daughter as well. But it wasn’t a good enough reason to protect the child. Fine. She may not harm her in the jail, but the kid has been afraid of her.

In another report, I read about this under-trial prisoner who has been in jail for the past 2 decades. Nothing has been proved against him, but he like so many others is rotting away in jail. It has been said that they don’t have enough vans to carry under-trial prisoners to the court. Can’t this problem be solved? On top of it, we also don’t have enough court-rooms. And just like everything else, nothing has been done about it either. Jails are over-crowded with prisoners; most of them are not even convicted. They don’t have enough space to sleep & due to this reason, they also develop a bone disease as they aren’t able to move a bit while asleep. A jail where they ought to be just 1500 prisoners is filled with 5000.

And those who kill maids are being supported by lawyers. What kind of a place do we live in? People also have no problem in killing infants here. I have written a number of times on this issue as well.

The future is of course pretty bleak. This may not seem to be your problem, but it is, cause this is happening in your country.

"If only people would meet in their very selves, without wanting to put some idea over one another, or some ideal. Damn all ideas and all ideals. Damn all the false stress, and the pins. I am I. Here am I. Where are you?Ah, there you are! Now, damn the consequences, we have met. That's my idea of democracy, if you can call it an idea."

- D.H. Lawrence

Setting Standards

It’s not what others think about you; it’s what you think about yourself, which is far important than anything else. I did learn it almost 9 years ago. I can’t say it’s one of the secrets to stay happy, but for sure you won’t feel miserable. Opinions of others aren’t that significant unless you are used to sycophants I suppose. Bad judgment too is essential. I mean how else would you grow? We need to make mistakes.

Today I read this on a bumper sticker:

“You don’t just stop loving someone; either you never did or you always will.”

Gosh, it almost answered something! But it takes so long to realize & we get the answers too late. Or maybe we get them at the appointed time.

My sister was telling me that people often ask her to lower her standard when it comes to guys. Incidentally, I also read the other day that women ought to settle for Mr. Not So Bad rather than waiting for Mr. Right. So far as my 1^st love & lousy crushes are concerned, my standard was way too low & I think my sister also chose all the bummers. She was better off than everyone.

We, females, also know our faults. Can anyone of us call herself Ms Right? If you’re going to be honest, then we all know the answer. I think I’m totally wacky (in a good sense though). My sister too is slightly cracked (I think it’s more than slightly: P). And I know women who are completely mad. And if they are not completely mad, then there are bitches of the highest order. Guys too have faults. You shouldn’t expect them to be knights in shining armors.

I think this entire debate about Mr. Right is crap. People click or they don’t click. The ones who click usually aren’t that great. Sometimes really cool folks fall for those who don’t deserve them. Life cannot have a set pattern. Different sorts of things happen to different people! Lowering or setting your standards wouldn’t change your fate one bit.

Sometimes we don’t get what we want & it turns out to be the best thing, because there could be something else in store. You never know.

I read this few days ago:

“And that it is He (God) Who makes (whom He wills) laugh, & makes (whom He wills) weep.”

Surah An-Najm

This verse sheds light on everything. It’s His will. It doesn’t matter whether we raise our standard or lower them.

One of a kind Lota

My sister wanted me to watch a video clip. It was Imran Khan’s speech. I think I should have started off my write-up with this line ‘First of all I would like to thank Allah’ :P I have no interest in cricket or any cricketer. I didn’t even watch World Cup 92. Actually my sister narrated everything she heard on that clip. She even has this habit of repeating & sometimes it’s hard to ignore. Even if I don’t listen to her once, I never miss any story.

Now I couldn’t understand what kind of a speech was that any way. He was just badmouthing others. Fine. All of them are corrupt. After all, corruption is fucking attitude in Pakistan. He was just telling us that others have murdered & someone also blackmailed him on TV. He just doesn’t understand as to how people could listen to Altaf Hussain. You know I just don’t understand how educated illiterates listen to all his crap & want him to be the next prime minister. There are things which can’t be comprehended I suppose.

This guy supported Mushy when he was new & then he went all against him. He sometimes side with this party & sometimes with another. The only word that comes to my mind is LOTA. Even when he had that trophy in his hand in 92, he kept on talking about his hospital.

High-handedness of lawyers condemned

Women MPAs belonging to PPP, MQM, & PML protested against the murder of Shazia in Lahore. They also protested against the high-handedness of lawyers & their partial attitude to protect the accused. Slogans were chanted against wukla gardi & dahshat gardi.

Shazia had been tortured to death by Mr. Naeem, his wife & sister-in-law. Although Mr. Naeem is in custody, but his wife & sister-in-law very conveniently are out on bail.

By the way, Shazia was 12, not 13 & my sister who has seen the photo of the victim says that she looked much younger.

Coco & Brandy

I have been thinking that I haven’t mentioned anything about Coco & Brandy. Well they both went through a bad time after the death of their baby brother. After a few days, they were diagnosed with a serious skin disease, which was also contagious. Since they were on Lactogen, the case was quite severe. Their mom died when they were barely 3 weeks old. There was nothing that could be done. They badly needed their mom. Anyway, Dr. Iftikhar did a good job & both Coco & Brandy came out of that deadly situation.

Their story was more like some dramatic Indian movie, but the good thing is that now they are both healthy; they are more like furry balls. Both of them are playful & very naughty. Coco is a girl. For a long time, we thought she was a boy. She’s far more naughtier than Brandy.

Coco still loves to sit on my shoulder, but now she’s too big. And they are both so cute…whenever I go in their room, they come & sit in my laps.

Z’s best friend also rescued a kitten. I think he was inspired by Z or something, but now Max is also with us. Coco & Brandy take care of Max, as if he’s really their little bro.

PS I know the story sounds quite boring, but that’s the problem with all the good things.

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Lawyer remanded in custody

It’s hilarious that lawyers of the Lahore Bar Association have turned against the media that supported them when they were performing a circus few days ago. The reason behind it is Mr. Naeem – the lawyer who killed his servant. The good news is that the magistrate has granted 3 days remand of Advocate Chaudhry Naeem. However, his wife & sister-in-law have obtained pre-arrest bails; FIR has also been registered against them.

This case has again given an auspicious opportunity to lawyers for performing another circus. They raised slogans against the media & didn’t allow the media to cover the court proceedings. Some lawyers also pushed the media people out of the court & some cut off the cables of various TV channels.This serves the media right, cause they love to give their opinions rather than sticking to the report & the facts. But it also says a lot about the lawyers of this country. Why do they want to hide the proceedings from people?

The lawyers are saying that the media has projected this case in a very unfair manner. According to them, the maid Shazia fell from the stairs. Mr. Naeem & his family are not involved in her death. Or shall we say murder? Lawyers have also been claiming that Shazia had some chronic disease & Mr. Naeem got her treated. I wonder did the treatment require man-handling. Advocate G.A. Tariq said that she had fungus infection that caused wounds on her body & damaged her nails. The explanation given by all these lawyers could even make a dumb person think. They need to stick to one story.

As I said in my previous write-up ‘Lawyer killed his servant’ that lawyers are too good when they want to be. Some are saying that she fell from the stairs, which is the cause of her death. That means there could be some broken bones or something. Some are also claiming that she had some chronic disease & she was under-treatment. I’m sorry she got treated. There’s a difference I know. Alright. Then we have Advocate Tariq saying that she had fungus infection, which is the reason why she had wounds all over her body & her nails are damaged. It means that the dead body has wounds, not broken bones or fractured bones due to the fall & yeah damaged nails. One more point, if she got treated, how come she had wounds & damaged nails?

I think the police need to dig the history of Mr. Naeem. Has he always been into man-handling his servants? This is a very crucial question, to begin with. Was Shazia really suffering from some chronic fungus disease? Or is it all farce?

By the way, lawyers will boycott courts on Wednesday in support of Mr. Naeem. They are kind of getting used to entertain the public. I’m looking forward to the photos.

I’m so sorry to say but we need better lawyers in this country. This girl was just 13 years old. She was somebody’s daughter too. Her murderer/murderers ought to be punished. No one is above law...not even lawyers & judges. And if this lawyer has committed a crime, then he must be punished accordingly. This is what justice demands. Life of a maid is no less than the life of an elitist. Let’s see what happens.

Talking Cats

Nothing is illegal until you get caught.

British Boy, 7, raises more than 100,000 for Haiti

A seven-year-old boy has raised more than £100,000 to help survivors of the Haitian earthquake after being moved by images of children being pulled alive from the rubble.

Charlie Simpson was so upset by the devastation wrought by the earthquake that he told his mother he wanted to do anything he could to help.

He set out to raise £500 for Unicef's Haiti appeal by riding his bike five miles around his local park - but the schoolboy's efforts inspired hundreds of people online who donated a total of more than £50,000 in just one day.

Charlie, from Fulham, west London, said: 'I just think it was quite sad when I saw the pictures on the TV.'

He asked his mother Leonora to help him create a sponsorship form and added: 'We sent it out on to the web and it just went everywhere.'

Mrs Simpson said: 'He was really upset when he saw the pictures on the television and it was great to see him get motivated behind something as important as this and do something about it.'

Asked how he first got the idea after seeing the images from Haiti, she said: "He actually burst into tears.

'He just sat on my lap, then we had about a chat about the things he could do, and how he could go about it.

'He decided to do the cycle ride and he made me do a sponsorship form for him and that was it. It suddenly took off.'

Mrs Simpson added: 'He really felt strongly about this and thought that something had to be done.

'But what started off as a little cycle round the park with his dad has turned into something a lot bigger than that and we can't believe it.

'I am extremely proud of our Charlie, he's done really well. He's worked hard and he's raised a phenomenal amount of money so we couldn't ask for anything more.'

Beauty has its price

“But being good-looking has its own penalties. The public will not let a comely face walk by anonymously; it must find out who owns it.”

- Gregory Maguire

I read this yesterday & I just couldn’t ignore it, because there is some truth in it. Your own face could be your worst enemy. I’m referring to genuinely good-looking folks, not the ones who are labeled good-looking by others for God knows what reasons.

The fact is…if you happen to be good-looking, what is your contribution in it? Nothing. Maybe it’s a plus point. Maybe it’s not. A beautiful face besides being intimidating also evokes the most ugliest of all feelings – jealousy in another human. And humans need a reason to stoop down; they’re all set to break the records of themselves & others. Some even dedicate their miserable lives to a cause that is not even worth wasting your time on, to begin with. But unbelievable methods are employed to destroy lives. And come to think of it, beauty is only skin deep. Nonetheless, penalty is the price you pay for something you didn’t even ask for.

Yeah I am a worshipper of beauty, but who is really beautiful. I have asked myself this question a number of times. I think if a person has his heart in the right place, then he is beautiful. In spite of all the ugliness around us, we do have beautiful humans, which is a good sign, but not enough.

Lawyer killed his servant

I wasn’t shocked beyond belief when I heard today that a lawyer tortured a 13 year old servant to the extent that she died. He started off beating this girl & continued till she was dead. This person is a lawyer…which means he knows the laws of this country & how he has killed another being shows his respect for those laws. And I don’t think it could be the 1^st time he has man-handled someone. Maybe it’s the 1^st time he has beaten someone to death though. It’s hard to believe that this person has studied law.

I’m so sorry but I can’t be nice when people who are supposed to protect laws break it shamelessly. Since we all know that you must have evidence to prove someone guilty in the court of law…this man or his lawyer could very easily prove it as an accident & get away with murder. Even though it’s 1^st degree murder, but lawyers are too good when they want to be.

We have often read that ignorance of law is not an excuse. I agree it’s not. However, the example set by this worthy barrister-at-law raises a very important question. Can we actually trust the people who know the laws on the statute book?

The crime-rate usually goes up, when the foundation of justice is weak. And yes I also know there is a world of difference between justice & law.

I don’t know what to call this murder. But it’s obvious that a life of a maid is not that important. This man didn’t have any problem in depriving another of her life.

I read another report in which the father & elder son killed the daughter as she married someone against their will. Fatima got married to Gul Zamin 6 years ago. They also have a 5 year old daughter & at the time of murder, Fatima was 9 months pregnant. The father & brother came to her house from another town & when Gul Zamin left the house to get some food for his in-laws, they murdered Fatima.

These 2 examples depict that people for the most have no respect for life & neither do they have any respect for law.

Virtual Candles for Michaela's Birthday

Today is Michael's birthday. If you want, you can light a virtual candle in her honor.

This is the link...click on it & then follow the instructions:

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The Richest Culture

This may sound like some exaggerated fairy tale but it is not. I don't find things really shocking or amazing but I heard everything twice to believe it.

My friends recently moved to another city and they were back for a few days. We never really were interested in that place. Always thought people there were hospitable and that they loved food. But now I heard too many details. It is funny and weird. And later on, one feels suffocated.

We were told of this city where the most important thing is money. It is this materialistic place where most of the people are loaded with shit loads of money. They own god knows what that money, gold, cars, food, stupidity etc falls in their laps all the time.

The key highlights were that people prefer buying everything expensive. If they buy a 100 rupee thing in 500 rupees that makes them proud. They love to know everything in everyone's life even how many times do people shit and fuck around and other details of if this is your bedroom, how much does this bed cost and how much did the bed sheet cost you.

From parents to kids everybody talks and understands the language of material power. People go to work and schools in 5 different cars every day. Kids ask parents when they will get the new car because his friend already comes to school in a new one. Civics and Citys are just the cars for drivers there. They don't use match sticks for some reason. Their stoves are never turned off. The fires on 24-7 on gas. Probably the reason why we hear of many fire accidents.

The women love to dress up all the time. Where ever they are going the clothes they wear have embroidery with gold wires and accessories that are too expensive and heavy. In gatherings, girls wear minis and they too are loaded with jewelery like crazy. When the party ends couples go separate ways to fuck other people they meet in the party. Fucking is also quite easy.

Weddings were another highlight. Since, people are quite rich their weddings are of a different magnitude. A wedding of 50 crore was what they told us with lightening that started from a huge difference. The heaters and air conditioners were both on so that girls feel comfy in their short minis. The menu on each table was grand with continental, italian, chinese, pakistani, etc etc with complete lists within each category. Besides booze on the house like anything.

But the way they speak remains constant :) The point is to just show and flaunt the money and possessions. It's about whatever could be practically shown to the world to create an impression.

It is weird though...but the culture seems rich at so many levels here.

I don't think I would really like living in this place much :)

The good of Nazi Germany

Understandably, the media has made Nazi Germany to be an 'evil' state; I do not deny the damage done by this state, and the tragedy of the Holocaust. However, the overwhelming negativity surrounding the nation renders us incapable of examining the many positive aspects of Nazi Germany. It is time for us to be unbiased and examine the history objectively.

First, animal welfare in Nazi Germany; ironically, Hitler loved animals and cared deeply about compassion and welfare for animals, and Nazi Germany was extremely friendly toward animals.

There was widespread support for animal welfare in Nazi Germany and the Nazis took several measures to ensure protection of animals. Many Nazi leaders including Adolf Hitler and Hermann Göring were supporters of animal protection. Several Nazis wereenvironmentalists, and species protection and animal welfare were significant issues in the Nazi regime. Heinrich Himmler made efforts to ban the hunting of animals. Göring was an animal lover and conservationist. The current animal welfare laws in Germany are more or less modification of the laws introduced by the Nazis.

A law imposing total ban on vivisection was enacted in August 16, 1933, by Hermann Göring as the prime minister of Prussia. He announced to end the "unbearable torture and suffering in animal experiments" and told that those who "still think they can continue to treat animals as inanimate property" will be sent to concentration camps.

Göring's broadcast,

An absolute and permanent ban on vivisection is not only a necessary law to protect animals and to show sympathy with their pain, but it is also a law for humanity itself.... I have therefore announced the immediate prohibition of vivisection and have made the practice a punishable offense in Prussia. Until such time as punishment is pronounced the culprit shall be lodged in a concentration camp

Further,

Goering also banned commercial animal trapping, imposed severe restrictions on hunting, and regulated the shoeing of horses. He imposed regulations even on the boiling of lobsters and crabs. In one incident, he sent a fisherman to concentration camp for cutting up a bait frog.

In 24 November 1933, Nazi Germany enacted another law, Reichstierschutzgesetz (Reich Animal Protection Act), for protection of animals. This law listed many prohibitions against the use of animals, including their use for filmmaking and other public events causing pain or damage to health, feeding fowls forcefully and tearing out the thighs of living frogs.

Nazi Germany was the first in the world to place the wolf under protection.

On March 27, 1936, Order on the slaughter of living fishes and other poikilotherms was enacted. On March 18 the same year, an order was passed on afforestation and on protection of animals in the wild.

http://www.sciforums.com/showthread.php?t=95335

"To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world."

-Anonymous

Adorable Babies

I’m committed, the other person breaks up: Salman Khan

It has always been pretty obvious, so to speak. Anyway, this is what Salman Khan has said, ‘I’m a very committed person. If it (a relationship) breaks, it’s always the other person who breaks it & not me. I don’t interfere that much because it matters a lot to me.’

About the dumping part, what can be said! Even Salman Khan can be treated as a piece of shit. However, I can’t derive any sort of consolation out of it.

In the subcontinent, I only like 2 celebrities- Marina Khan & Salman Khan. They both seem genuinely nice humans. I have met Marina 3 or 4 times & this woman doesn’t have any hang ups. She’s down to earth. And above everything else, she also cares about animals. So far as Salman Khan is concerned, the media has always painted him as slightly cracked & someone who’s ever ready to explode. He can’t be all that bad.

You know we have some celebrities in Pakistan who love to tell us that they belong to a group called an elitist. I heard Rahat Kazmi saying on TV that he is an elitist by choice. I never expected an educationist to make this sort of statement. But Asma Jehangir is one person who said something that no one can dare to think in Pakistan. She said, ‘Badboodar hai humhari elite.’ Amazing! I so totally agree with her. I don’t always agree with her though. Her assessment in this matter rocks!

Anyhow, you must have seen the trailer of Veer. Well the heroine seems too young for him. Wanted has been a huge success, naturally the expectation of people have gone up. I hope Veer also clicks at the box office.

I also read that Saif is asking Bebo to loose some weight & we must bear in mind that they started going out when Kareena had size zero. I’m sure no one can ever forget that size zero thingy.

I haven’t seen Avatar as yet, but my sister has seen it twice & so I know the entire story.

Please pray for Gabriel

Gabriel was last seen on December 26th, San Antonio, TX. Any tips or clues to his whereabouts can be called in to 1-800-THE-LOST.

Gabriel's mother is in jail right now. She ran away with him last month; then she called her husband & said that she had the killed the baby. She was arrested in a few days. Now she's saying that she has given the baby to another couple. No one knows as to where Gabriel is. One doesn't know what to believe. The father is of course heartbroken. And this woman refuses to tell anything to the police. This is indeed a very tragic case in which a mother is responsible for the mess.

It won't even take a minute, so please pray for Gabriel. He's very young & the sooner he comes back home, the better.

There is a site where you could virtually light candle for Gabriel:

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=BGM

Evan

Evan is just 7 month old & he was a bait dog. You could see he has a swollen head. Anyway right now he's in good hands. Moreover, many people are willing to help this sweet boy.

But Evan has been rescued, but innumerable innocent dogs die. And what's the reason? Some humans are monsters & they embarrass us all by being such bastards.

Animals deserve respect & love as much as humans. Be the 1st one to kindle the light rather than waiting for others to do something concrete.

Mahatma Gandhi very rightly said:

"The greatness of a nation & its moral progress can be judged the way its animals are treated."

Take it or fuck it!

This is not the 1^st time I’m writing on such creatures. I’m referring to that specie that wants others to do exactly how they want things. On top of it, some say that we live in a free country. It’s rather suffocating than free, to be precise.

Lately I wrote on that status episode that was taken quite badly by those who don’t want to talk about such stuff openly. While criticizing others, they didn’t even once think about their own shameless histories. And we have complex psychos everywhere in this country who have issues with everything & anything. Some people also have issues with the kind of display pics that people upload on their profiles. I think it’s entirely the business of the person. You may not like the pic, but why being so judgmental about it? The world cannot live on complex psychotic terms & thank God for that! What I do find weird is that some people take shit from such morons.

And really I don’t understand this crap about everyone following the same rules. People cannot behave how you want them to behave. Moreover, people are answerable to God, not to these complex psychos.

There are applications in which people get tagged automatically. I have been tagged a number of times, but I’m quite chill about it as I have too many people in my circle. A friend of mine was telling me that someone in her circle got tagged & she bothered her like anything. And my friend personally knew her; she didn’t meet her on FB via these games.

I keep on writing on hideous beings. I myself don’t understand why I have this anguish. Actually I can’t stand restriction of any kind & I hate to see how people let others insult them. Who has given these beings the right to look down on others? Being born in a better place is not a good enough reason. It only shows the level of intolerance. People want different things for themselves & they want totally different things for others. This proves that they are nothing but hypocrites. Unfortunately altars are being raised for these morons by the very people who are being looked down by them. This is unacceptable, but this is not going to change.

A Broken Heart

I don’t know about other places, but here whether you are interested or not, you get to hear strange tales about love & marriage.

Lately I heard about 2 cases in which the females left the guys just before their engagement. One of them is too materialistic & the other one I think is slightly cracked, besides being extremely rude. I also have guy friends who have been wronged by their sweethearts. In some cases, you just can’t help, but taking the side of guys. But this doesn’t mean all guys are very nice. I think the ones who are nice usually end up with bitches. Whatever the case is, it hurts when someone plays with your heart & then conveniently discards it.

There are lots of things that one can’t comprehend & many a time, I’ve never been able to understand the views of people on marriage. And what I find a little funny is the suggestion given to me by my friends. They think that if you have family problems, then marriage is the only solution. I was 19 when my best friend for the 1^st time gave me this piece of advice. I just can’t agree with it even today. There is something just not right about it. Even the idea seems as if you are taking advantage of someone. And the scary part is: what if things don’t work out? And yes I have always been scared of marriage owing to a variety of reasons.

Mine was a one-sided love; naturally I don’t know how one treats his/her loved one so badly. And I also don’t like such mean people. You’re going out for years & when you’re about to tie the knot, you just wake up & realize that the guy doesn’t have so much money or he’s immature & then there’s no mental compatibility or there is something wrong with his sexual capacity. I know this guy whose life is totally shattered, thanks to his ex-girl friend who deserted him a week before the wedding. She ran away with another man.

Well what I have seen is that love is something that is being trampled almost every day. Once I read & I think I did share it with you all that only time is capable of understanding how great love is. I often wonder if it holds true for everyone. Some people just use & discard others; they don’t give a shit. And this goes for both men & women.

Breaking someone’s heart is the easiest of all things. People also derive pleasure out of it by telling it to everyone. Just tell me what can a mortal do if he/she falls for someone? Isn’t it something that just happens & you don’t have control over it! I personally know people who are suffering from mental illness. They have been in love & this is what they get in return. One of my friends was raped by the guy she loved. As I mentioned earlier on that mine was one-sided love, so I really don’t blame him. I was a fool, but even I had to pay the price.

There are also people who genuinely love another person & yet they say nothing at all. This fear of rejection is so much that they keep it to themselves. I was listening to this song the other day: Mil kay bhi hum na milay tum say na janay kyun. This feeling must be pure torture. It seems love is some sort of cancer; eventually it kills, cause the cure ain’t good enough.

How cute!