Now this is a very interesting question. Actually my kid sister had this as her status yesterday. I couldn’t notice it, cause when I’m on FB, it’s all about mafia. But she was telling me that it was more or less a joke for almost everyone. Anyhow, our friend Jean said something that couldn’t be ignored:
“Love IS blind...but LUST sees VERY CLEARLY!
Ever wonder why it's so easy to get with people you don't really like that much, but people you really feel in love with are usually so hard to get together with?”
Coming back to the question…I think genuine love is blind & lingerie is popular, cause people want to look sexy. I also believe when people feel sexy, they look sexy. And when you have sex, you must feel sexy…Anyhow, these are my views & I’m, by all means, not an expert. The person who raised this question most probably was trying to throw dirt on love or maybe he was just having fun.
What bothers me is that if love is blind then why does the sexual capacity of the person is so important? What if the person you love turns out to be an impotent or a cold potato? Or is it good fuck which is more important than love?
I think lust sees really very clearly, but nevertheless love is still very beautiful…if you find it anywhere, don’t lose it. Give it your best shot. You can deal with the all the interesting questions later on.