I just couldn’t help thinking about Dolly jee. The thing is when we try to understand others, we learn something about ourselves. Dolly jee helped me solved a puzzle. By the way, her real name is Dolly Bindra & now people refer to her as ‘Dolly Bomb.’
Although everything is scripted in Big Boss but Dolly jee is one character that has been thrown out of the house cause of her nature. She is the one who has generated maximum TRP for Color’s reality show Big Boss. She may come back as a wild card entry.
She’s indeed a good specimen for study. I don’t think she’s a bad human. She used to apologize later on & she didn’t just say sorry, but she meant it as well. However, she somehow defends herself in a very violent manner.
According to her, everyone in the house has some insecurity problem. I never saw anyone provoking her or instigating against her. I think she herself has some insecurity issues.
There are 2, 3 questions that popped up in my mind: why would anyone want to provoke you to take a stupid step? Why do they want to instigate others against you? There ought to be some motive. If you’re stupid enough, you will take the bait. Naturally the person who wants to provoke you can’t be your well-wisher. In the next stage, this particular person might instigate against you. But people who listen to all that crap can’t be your friends either. 1st you’re being provoked, then the person instigates against you, cause you provided that auspicious opportunity to him/her & you even lose someone else in the process. That’s really bad. You can’t do this to yourself.
I might not have looked at this way, but Dolly jee somehow helped me. One must not fuck with losers.
I also liked what Samir said on the show. He sided with Shweta cause he believed that one must help out the weaker one rather than sticking to the stronger side. People mostly stick to the authority. It doesn’t matter whether they are right or wrong.
Dolly jee lost her father when she was much, much older & many of us have lost one parent at a very young age. I just couldn't agree with Dolly jee as her argument didn't have much weight. You become strong or bitter. Sometimes you really don't have any choice & you've got to stay strong! Dolly jee took everyone for granted. You can't go around abusing people just like that. This is not moral strength or courage of any kind whatsoever. I know losing a parent is really a bad experience. Things alter no matter what, but this is life. Some of us have to go through this & we don't have the right to take it out on others.
PS Salman Khan looks a lot like my father & those of you who have seen him know it's not a lie. In fact my mom says that Salman Khan looks more like his kid than us. Anyway, this Saturday Salman Khan was a little serious & he just reminded me of Papa. And I have made this discovery that my kid sister is madly in love with Sallu Bhai. She even knows details about his Nani...
